76 million women across the US, UK, Canada, Australia and New Zealand are in the years of perimenopause and menopause. You're not alone.

Could this be perimenopause?

Noticing changes in your sleep, mood or cycle? Start with a few questions to make sense of what you're experiencing.

Two minutes. A starting point for understanding, not a diagnosis.

Track your changes with Softa

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Softa's Journal Today screen: Good afternoon, Anna, with the Your body today card and Body, Sleep, Mood, Mind, Cycle logging buttons

What have you noticed lately?

Sleep changes
Mood changes
Cycle changes

Everything you need to understand your transition

What is Softa?

Softa is a perimenopause and menopause companion app. You log how you feel in about ten seconds, Softa shows which patterns keep repeating in your own records, and it turns weeks of notes into a one-page summary and questions to take to your doctor.

It’s a tracker, not a diagnosis. It won’t tell you that you are in perimenopause or menopause, and it doesn’t replace a doctor. It helps you notice what changes, so the conversation with a doctor starts from facts instead of memory.

  1. 1

    Log in about ten seconds

    Tap where you feel it, or pick a mood or a night’s sleep. No forms, nothing to lose if you miss a day.

  2. 2

    See which patterns repeat

    Softa lines up symptoms, cycle timing, sleep and mood across your own records and shows what keeps repeating.

  3. 3

    Bring a summary to your doctor

    Weeks of logs become a one-page PDF and a short list of questions, ready before your appointment.

Softa at a glance

What it is
A perimenopause and menopause symptom tracker and companion app.
What it does
Logs symptoms, sleep, mood and cycle changes; shows patterns in your own records; prepares a one-page summary for your doctor.
What it is not
Not a medical device. It doesn’t diagnose, prescribe or predict periods.
Who it’s for
Women and people who menstruate who notice changes in sleep, mood, energy or their cycle, usually from their late 30s to their 50s and beyond.
Platforms
iPhone and Android (launching soon), plus a free quiz on the web.
Language
English first.
Privacy
No ads and no selling of data. Export or delete your data from inside the app.
Price
Free to start (Body Map, logging, articles). Premium unlocks more — take the quiz to see your personal offer, including a free trial.

It’s 3am and you’re awake again. Your period is late, or early, or gone. You lose the word for the thing you use every day. None of this is in your head — it just doesn’t have a name yet.

8 in 10

women get hot flashes or night sweats in perimenopause and menopause (NICE NG23).

The list is longer than anyone told you

Most checklists stop at hot flashes and mood. Softa tracks those and the ones you only find out about from other women.

Usually on the list

  • Hot flashes
  • Night sweats
  • Irregular periods
  • Mood swings
  • Brain fog

Rarely on the list — and just as real

  • Waking at 3am
  • Itchy ears
  • Frozen shoulder
  • Heart palpitations
  • Cold flashes
  • Weight changes with no reason

The long road

A woman’s body, front and back, shown translucent with glowing nerves to show it works as one connected system

It isn’t a moment. It’s years.

People talk about “menopause” as if it were an event. It’s really a long transition, and most of us are never told how long.

  • Perimenopause

    Usually around 7, sometimes up to 14. Periods turn unpredictable and symptoms come and go.

  • Menopause

    The point 12 months after your last period. Average age: about 51.

  • Postmenopause

    Hormones settle at a lower level. Some symptoms fade, some need looking after.

7.4

years: the median length of hot flashes and night sweats in one large US study (SWAN), and longer for some women. Long enough to manage, not just endure.

Illustration of hormone signals travelling from the brain and ovaries through the body

Hormones talk to the whole body

Estrogen is made mostly in the ovaries, but its receptors sit in the brain, bones, heart, skin, gut and bladder. So when levels start to swing, and later settle lower, many systems feel it at once.

That’s why perimenopause isn’t only hot flashes. It can look like broken sleep, a shorter fuse, aching joints, a foggy afternoon. Different symptoms, one underlying shift.

  • Brain
  • Sleep
  • Bones
  • Heart
  • Skin
  • Gut
  • Bladder
  • Mood
A woman looking at her reflection in a mirror, with a translucent head showing a glowing brain and fine golden nerves

Unnoticed, it wears you down quietly

When you don’t know what’s going on, it’s easy to blame yourself, push through, and slowly do less of what you love. Nothing dramatic, just a bit less energy, a bit less sleep, a bit less of you.

Writing symptoms down turns “I feel off” into a pattern you can see, and something you can take to a doctor.

It was never in your head. It just didn’t have a name yet.

Small, steady things make it easier on your body

Movement, food and sleep won’t switch symptoms off, but for many women they make the years easier to carry, and the effect tends to show up over weeks, not overnight. Softa gives you gentle, level-aware versions of each.

A woman lifting a light dumbbell, her arm shown translucent with glowing muscles and bones

Move

Regular strength work helps keep muscle and bone strong, which matters more as estrogen falls.

A woman in a kitchen holding a salad, her body shown translucent with a glowing brain and gut

Eat

Steady, balanced meals with enough protein and fibre help energy and mood stay level through the day.

A woman asleep, her calm brain glowing softly through translucent skin

Rest

A cool room and a steady sleep routine make broken nights easier to live with while things settle.

Images are AI-generated and not real people. Sources: National Institute on Aging, “What is menopause?”; Avis NE et al., JAMA Internal Medicine, 2015 (SWAN study). General information only. Softa doesn’t diagnose or treat; talk to a doctor about your own symptoms.

Which stage sounds like you?

Four stages, one honest map — see what's common at each, then check with your clinician.

From “something’s off” to something you can show a doctor

Four small steps. Nothing to set up, and nothing to lose if you miss a day.

  1. 1

    Log it in ten seconds

    A symptom, a mood, a night’s sleep. Real dates, no predictions, and nothing to lose if you miss a day.

    • Symptoms
    • Mood
    • Sleep
    Softa's Log Today screen with the body map — tap where you feel it, plus mood chips like Low mood and Anxiety
  2. 2

    See what keeps repeating

    Softa lines up symptoms, cycle timing, sleep and mood, so the patterns you couldn’t see in the moment start to show.

    • Cycle timing
    • Sleep
    • Mood
    Softa's Today screen with the Patterns button that opens Findings, where patterns like headaches around your period start get surfaced
  3. 3

    Test what you suspect

    When something shows up next to a symptom more than chance would explain, check it yourself over a real 7-day test. A pattern to verify, never a diagnosis.

    • One suspect
    • 7 real days
    • Your verdict
    Softa's Today screen with the Patterns button — testing a 7-day pattern happens from here
  4. 4

    Take it to your appointment

    Weeks of logs become a one-page summary and the questions worth asking, so the visit starts from evidence instead of memory.

    • One page
    • Your questions
    • Share it
    Softa's Doctor tab with the ready-for-your-visit checklist: days of records, a repeating pattern, and questions to ask

See the full timeline →

Everything a changing body asks of you, in one calm place

A mother logging how she feels on her phone at the kitchen table

Log it while life is happening

Ten seconds, works offline, nothing to lose if you skip a day.

Log in seconds

  • Hot flashes

    Moderate · 9:10 AM

  • Waking at 3am

    Last night

Your real cycle range

24–41 days

Night wake-ups

Mostly 3–4am, last 7 nights

7-day test

Afternoon coffee and hot flashes

Day 5 of 7

One page for your doctor

Top symptoms, trends, cycle history and the questions worth asking.

How the Visit Pack works →

Private by default

Never sold. Export or delete everything, any time.

Our privacy promise →

Walk in with more than “I’ve been feeling off”

A woman showing her one-page symptom summary to her doctor

A scattered week

hot flash ~2am againforgot the word for... the thing. spatula??period? day 34, still nothingso tired today, low energyachy shoulder since tuessnapped at everyone, don't know why

One page you can use

Last 30 days

  • •Hot flashes: 9 times in 30 days, mostly overnight
  • •Cycle: day 34 and counting — longest gap in 6 months
  • •Brain fog: noted 5 times, worse midday

Questions worth asking

  • “Could my sleep disruption be hormone-related?”
  • “Is a 34-day gap still “irregular,” or worth flagging?”

Not another period app

vs. period-tracking apps

Built for cycles that are still regular. Softa is built for cycles that aren't.

vs. a symptom log

A log tells you what happened. Softa tells you what tends to happen together — then lets you test whether it's real, over 7 real days.

vs. a notes app

Notes don't connect a symptom today to a pattern from three weeks ago. Softa does.

vs. doing nothing

Most people spend a year unsure before they have language for what's happening. This shortens that.

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Built because “you’re fine” isn’t an answer

Too many people get told their symptoms are normal, or nothing, or just stress — and spend months piecing together on their own that something real is happening. Softa exists to shorten that part: not by diagnosing anything, but by making your own pattern visible sooner, in language you can bring to a doctor.

  • Never sold. Export or delete everything, any time.
  • Informed by published guidance: NICE NG23, The Menopause Society, STRAW+10.

Our privacy promise →How the method works →

Perimenopause, menopause and postmenopause in plain words

Perimenopause is the transition before menopause. It can bring irregular periods, broken sleep, mood changes, hot flashes and night sweats, brain fog and joint aches, and it often starts in the 40s, sometimes earlier.

Perimenopause
The years before your final period, when hormone levels swing and cycles and symptoms change. It usually lasts around 4 years on average, but the range is wide, from a few months to about a decade.
Menopause
A single point in time, confirmed after 12 months in a row without a period. The average age is about 51 in the US.
Postmenopause
Everything after that 12-month mark, for the rest of life. Some symptoms ease, others may need looking after.
  • About 8 in 10 women get hot flashes or night sweats in perimenopause and menopause (NICE guideline NG23).
  • Blood tests are usually not a reliable way to tell whether you are in perimenopause: NICE recommends against using FSH or AMH tests to diagnose it in women aged 45 and over, because levels swing too much from day to day.
  • That is why your own dated record of symptoms, sleep and cycle changes is useful evidence to bring to a doctor.

Sources: NICE guideline NG23, “Menopause: identification and management” (nice.org.uk/guidance/ng23); Cleveland Clinic, “Perimenopause” (my.clevelandclinic.org); STRAW+10 staging system (Harlow et al., 2012). General information, not medical advice; talk to a doctor about your own symptoms. Last updated 25 September 2026.

Questions people ask before starting

What is Softa?

Softa is a perimenopause and menopause companion app. You log symptoms, sleep, mood and cycle changes in about ten seconds, and it shows the patterns that repeat in your own records instead of a generic checklist. It then prepares a one-page summary and questions for your doctor.

Is Softa a medical device? Does it diagnose?

No. Softa is a tracker and organiser, not a medical device. It doesn’t diagnose perimenopause or menopause, prescribe, or predict periods. It suggests a starting point from your answers, you confirm or correct it, and only a doctor can tell you where you are.

Can Softa tell me if I’m in perimenopause?

Not with certainty, and no app or single blood test can. Softa can show whether your answers and records look like the transition and help you notice patterns. Bring that record to a doctor, who can evaluate your symptoms, age and history.

How does Softa work?

You log a symptom, a mood or a night’s sleep in seconds. Softa lines up symptoms, cycle timing, sleep and mood, points out what keeps showing up together, and lets you test a hunch for 7, 14 or 28 days. It then turns your records into a summary for your appointment.

Does Softa work with irregular cycles?

Yes, that is what it is built for. Many period apps assume regular cycles and predict from an average. Softa records your real dates, shows your cycle as a range instead of a single number, and never makes fake predictions when your cycle is changing.

Is Softa for menopause and postmenopause too?

Yes. After your last period, sleep, mood, energy and joint aches can continue, and strength and habits matter more. Softa keeps tracking symptoms, offers strength and breathing sessions, and prepares summaries for check-ups, without putting your cycle in the centre.

What data does Softa collect, and is it private?

Softa stores the symptoms, cycle and sleep records you enter, and your account details. There are no ads and no selling of data. You can export everything or delete your account from inside the app. Health data is never sent to advertising platforms.

Is Softa free?

Yes, to start — Body Map logging, symptom and cycle tracking, and the full Explore article library are free with no time limit. Premium unlocks the 28-day challenge, Trigger Detective and the Visit Pack. Take the quiz to see your personal offer, including a free trial. See the pricing page for the full breakdown.

When is Softa available, and on which devices?

Softa is being prepared for iPhone and Android and is not in the stores yet. The store buttons on this page will link to the listings when they go live. Until then you can take the quiz on the web.

How long does perimenopause last?

About 4 years on average, but the range is wide, from a few months to around a decade, according to Cleveland Clinic. Menopause itself is a single point, confirmed after 12 months without a period. A dated record helps you and your doctor see how your own transition is going.

Inside Softa

Real screens — logging, patterns, the 28-day report and getting ready for a visit.

  • App Store preview, Log how you feel in 30 seconds: Softa's Log Today screen with the body map and symptom pills
  • App Store preview, See the patterns behind your symptoms: Softa's Findings screen with a headaches-around-period-start pattern callout
  • App Store preview, Your 28-Day Clarity Challenge: Softa's 28-day pattern report after a completed round
  • App Store preview, Walk into your appointment ready: Softa's Doctor tab and a one-page visit summary ready to export as a PDF
  • App Store preview, Clear answers from trusted sources: Softa's Explore screen with short reads on symptoms, sleep and treatment

Ready to see where you actually are?

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